Throughout our lives, we strive to uphold our values and the beliefs that stem from these. Yet how many of us are truly aware of these values and what they actually mean and the ways in which they both free and limit us? Ask a few people what their values are and what these values actually represent to and for them and you open up a real can of worms.
Values like respect, love, faith, hate, safety, time, money, etc are the backbone of so much of what we do and choose and yet how many of these values are truly of our own choosing and are they still valid for us today?
Here, I particularly want to look at the value of VALUE.
How do you value yourself?
Do the ways in which you value yourself add to you and your life?
Do the ways is which you value yourself actually limit you?
When you choose something, or not, does your value system, value YOU?
This comes up often, when for example a person turns down a Reiki class for reasons of time and money.
How to argue against these two staunch and valid value systems?
I used to go into the justification of the why and how and when, only to stop myself.
I realized that’s about a value system and a feeling of worth.
Where are all the places we use time and money as reasons for not valueing ourselves?
And I chose to hold the value that where there is a will there is a way. I found it felt correct to say that I always have the time and money, however, sometimes I choose to spend it on something else.
This is an important distinction in my opinion and balances the underlying directive energy that sets the tone and vibration of allowing and receiving.
What is the value of a class and learning a new modality?
Is it something that will add to your life and thus your contribution to others?
What if the information from the class has a ripple effect in your life, way above and beyond the time and money you spend?
What is the value of choosing to pay medical bills rather than learn a bodywork modality that increases body health and awareness? Not only for you, but others as well.
What value do you attach to change and is it something you truly desire?
What is the value of time and money? How have you made them more valuable than YOU?
I don’t know about you, but many times I have turned something down because the time and money were more valuable to me than ME. I was not choosing from a place of self-worth and valueing ME and then demanding that whatever was required to make it happen show up. What a crazy way to think!
If you’re a practitioner, where have you made the modalities you work with more valuable than leaning something new?
For me, there are no limitations in Oneness and yet within the practitioner field, I am often aware of an unwillingness to explore anything new. What is the value of finding the one modality that works for everything and everyone?
I have played with several modalities and use them all for myself and then my clients.
What’s valuable to me, is the value of how the modality expands and enhances everything in myself and my life.
Definitely worth the time and money, the investment in me – a gift that keeps on gifting…
As Neale Donald Walsch wrote, “your Life begins at the end of your comfort zones.” And what is the value of your comfort zones and holding on to them? How do they validate you?
What would your life look like if you choose every day in every way to value the Greatness of YOU, no matter what?
When you align daily with the value of you and what’s of value to you, then infinite possibilities appear…
And if you’re not sure what your values are and would like to release yourself from old values and not sure how, I can assist you in a Breakthrough 1:1 session. Just reach out….
Trilby Johnson is a Breakthrough Mentor and Metaphysical Intuitive, Best-Selling Author and Speaker. Her clients hire her to stop struggling and feeling stuck in body, mind, emotion and soul and move beyond limitation into wisdom in their lives, relationships, finances, emotions, health, mindset and soul connection. Trilby assists in creating new energetic pathways that empowers and assists in resolving core issues.
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