Authentic Relating – the most important relationship you will ever have

Authentic Relating – the most important relationship you will ever have

Authentic Relating – the most important relationship you will ever have

Do you know how to relate authentically? No secrets here …………. it begins with YOU. The kind of relationship you have with yourself, will impact on other areas of your life. On your health, wealth, relationships, work and spirituality. For truly everything is within before it shows up without.
To create true and lasting change in one’s life and the world, the change starts with oneself. And I mean change as in stepping into or towards total, complete, all-encompassing, unconditional allowance and gratefulness for who we are, in all our complex, confusing, magnificence ….. NOW!
Awareness to what is going on, is the first step and then choosing. So what does this awareness look like and where can it be found? And once aware how can we create the change we desire ? Whatever is going on in your life, your body, your relationships etc serves as a reflection and offers information as to what kind of vibrational frequency we are at. So, we can get information from these experiences. And from here choose consciously where we desire to travel next and what kind of an experience we are seeking to have.
Plus, there is a whole arena of vibrational frequencies that is just beyond our current level of perception. This is just how energy works. Like a radio station – you have to tune in to the exact frequency to catch the show and when you are in range you can tune in. All that static you can hear, is information that is on another frequency.
Sometimes it is this static that draws us and that hold the new information we require to take the next step. However, how can we tune in to receive it. As Neale Donald Walsch wrote, “Your real life begins, beyond your comfort zones.” So what’s it going take to first of all recognise those comfort zones, then know how to choose which are working for you or not, and then choose to focus on what does work?
Often we know we have to choose something different – the signs are all around – however we do not know how to. Choosing a mentor or facilitator is a great choice. I have been fortunate in my life to have received counsel and mentoring from some amazing people and the greatest gift I received was that of objectivity.
A blind spot is a specific vibrational frequency and so having a third person who is inspiring, uplifting and most importantly non-judgemental to guide me to recognising them and how to clear their electromagnetic imprint has been worth the blood, sweat and the tears – leaving space and infinite possibilities. It has given me the ability to be the Observer more and more in my life.
When we are able to stand in a place as the Observer, we are able to see all, without judgement. Meditation teaches us this – for me this is the lesson in the practice of the law of detached consciousness. It gives us the space and tools with which we can see the wood for the trees and opens up an infinite choice of possibility.
My personal journey has been one of learning to love myself 100% – the good, the bad and the ugly. I have and continue to embrace my darker side and to enjoy expanding with it more into my lighter sides. My criteria for choice today are ease and joy. Is this something you would like for you too?
What if you are the one you have been waiting for? And what if the waiting is now over? It is You and the time is NOW!
By the Light of the God I AM
I release all procrastination and indecisiveness
I acknowledge the power to create, the courage to believe
And the willingness to receive the abundance of the universe
I embrace the awareness to actualise my purpose
I release my childhood contract where I felt I had to save myself from myself and others
Now, as an enlightened being, I know that I cannot be all things to all people.
My greatest joy is living my authentic self
(Author Unknown)
Trust this inspires you to know just how valuable you are.
In Light.
Trilby

Trilby Johnson is an Emotional Breakthrough Mentor, Author and Speaker whose clients hire her to go from emotional zero to emotional hero, as they heal, alleviate stress and cultivate emotional freedom in their lives, relationships, finances, emotions, health and mindset. She shares her knowledge of how to create inner harmony and outer balance with those seeking to deepen their self-knowing and expand their consciousness.

Contact Trilby for a Breakthrough Alchemy Assessment if you are ready for go from zero to hero now!

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7 Days to Greater Intimacy

7 Days to Greater Intimacy

Ad text (2)Have you ever consciously noticed that the word intimacy begins with the letter “I” ? This is because, to experience true intimacy in life, you have to first become Intimate with yourself. Getting to know YOU, as the saying goes. This involves all of you – the good, the bad and ugly bits – so that you are left with the phenomenal unique creation and gift that is YOU!

For centuries we have been taught through cultural and religious indoctrination that the body is something unclean and it will lead you astray. Those in power knew the secret of the body connection and its sacred nature and that by propogating this beLIEf that the flesh would betray you, drove a wedge between you and your greatest and closest friend. Your Body. Sadly this misdirection of information continues today, however, thankfully with the new energy and arrival of raised consciousness, these untruths are beginning to fall away and dissolve. It’s not over yet though and YOU have a lead role to play in creating true genuine and sustainable healthy change around this. How? Well let me explain.

If you believe the premise, that everything is within you, and I do, then the very first place to start is with what you already have. Right? So what do we all have whilst we are on this planet Earth, from the time just after conception until we die and our remains are laid to rest? Yes! A human body. During a lifespan we awake and fall asleep in it every day of our life.  And yet, how well, if at all do you know your own body?

I know it has taken me many years to really understand just how my body plays a role in my life above and beyond my initial perception. Buried beneath the weight of social, gender and personal judgment of what it – my body – should look like, be like and act like – I became aware in my early twenties just how much my body actually did for me. At that age though I still did not understand exactly all that this amazing miraculous physical machine made up of muscles, bone, skin and an intricate network of nerves and organs that were all taking care of me, whilst I got on with Life. As I began to use and follow my intuition more and more, I began to have greater awareness about just how much my body actually did for me. And probably 90% of the time I was absolutely unaware of what was going on. And it was my own body.

Since then I have learned to tap into not only my own body’s innate intelligence and to hede its wealth of information, but also that of others. I am convinced that if we as a species are to experience greater bounty, health and communion not only with each other but with the rest of life on this planet, then it is imperative that we connect to this vehicle first. Why?

You life is spent in a physical body and everything you perceive – consciously and unconsciously – connects You to everything else through and in your body. It is your receptor and magically also responds and morphs in response to the frequency of your directives. These are more commonly known as your thoughts. Your body literally hears and captures everything that you ever see, feel or think.

Scientists have observed in the laboratory that when a cell is observed under a microscope, it begins to respond to the attention of the observer. A great example of this is the wonderful work done by the late Dr Masaru Emoto on water crystals. Although there is still controversy over his work, the proof is in the picture, as the microscopic photos show clearly the different imprint of certain words on the water. Simultaneously, it is a biological fact that the human body, and that of our Planet consists of 80% water. This is what is meant when said that water represents emotions. Water is a perfect conduit for vibrations and in turn the vibrations impact on the water’s molecular structure.

So when I mentioned earlier that I began to become aware of just how much my body was already doing that was beyond my conscious attention, I began to observe the relationship between how I was feeling and what was showing up in my body and also my life. This is how I know that there is a connection. But the most important connection – because it is the core and control room – is my own body and how I connect and interact with it.

As a Body-Brain Reformer, I have worked with many clients who suffer from chronic pain, whether physical or emotional. I have also worked with and through my own chronic suffering. And so I know that the key to living a happy life is within the connection that I have with my own body and the information and highly intuitive feedback system that it works on. Here we have a highly sophisticated system that interrelates between layers of consciousness, with the human brain set up as the mainframe. This is a loop system though, so the brain is capturing information from not only the body, but from the body’s light bodies and the realm of the psyche and setting up a feedback system to support the transmission of this information. It is an extremely subtle and sensitive system that has enormous potential that for the most part has gone untapped, due to limiting data programming via thought patterns chosen and that lock the energy in the body. So we need to learn how to consciously input and programme the data fed into this control centre. This is where as an individual we hold the power of choice to co-create a specific lifestyle and set of experiences.

There is no doubt that social, educational and physical entrainment can inhibit these processes and they have for the majority of us, for a long long time. Until now. There is a movement, called the Awakening. There is nothing religious about. It is a scientifically observable fact, as more photonic energy is showing up. This event is causing an unprecedented increase in vibrational energy and so time appears to move quicker, changes happen more often. If we are to ride this wave successfully and with a medium of control, then we must learn to use the tools and resources that we have at our disposition. Everything is within and it’s accessible in and via your human body. If you would like to find out what kind of body connection you can have with your body, so that you can enjoy and participate actively in the changes that are happening, then I have a challenge for you.

I am hosting the Body Connection 7 Day Challenge. This challenge is an invitation for you to explore different ways of becoming aware of and strengthening your connection between you and your body. To experience a taster of how you can create a greater intimacy with yourself. When you begin to tap into the natural profound connection that is already there and available, you will feel a sense of renewed purpose, confidence and belonging. You will feel like you have come Home!

Is this challenge for you? Do you suffer chronically, experience anxiety, stress and a sense of overwhelm or isolation, low self-esteem or are you unhappy about your body image? Or do you simply want to feel healthier and more confident in and about your body? Do you want to live a successful and fulfilled healthy sexy Life? If so, then yes this challenge is for You!

It begins 1 July 2015 NZST. Opt in now for this complimentary 7 days challenge by clicking this link http://breakthroughsavvy.com/7-day-challenge.html and you will find some more information on the page about how the challenge runs.

It’s time to network with you. In 7 days you can experience a greater Intimacy with you that will have a ripple effect in and across your whole life.

Please share this post with your friends as the more the merrier. Just think of all those Happy Healthy Bodies! 🙂

In Light
Trilby

p.s. if you have any questions please email me at trilbytheconnective@gmail.com

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Trilby D. Johnson is an Transformational Author and a body-brain reformer, whose message of self-actualization, embodiment and self-love invites people from around the world to embrace their Sovereign Authenticity as they release chronic thinking around money, health and love. She provides tools and skills for people to live a life free of pain, suffering, sadness and self-limiting beliefs and makes spiritual living practical.
Trilby is also the channel of the quantum activation tool ‘connective embodiment’ which is transferable via energy upload.
Find out more about the possibilities here – http://breakthroughsavvy.com

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